Everybody does, and everybody knows… That we all do it… Masturbate.

It’s a word that is best used when it is whispered, like the soft evening wind shuffling the tree leafs, you know it’s there because of the sounds the leafs make, soft, powerful, whispered like the breaths we take… gasping for air… over and over again… until we’re there.

That’s the power of sex which drives men and women to masturbate, even when we are in relationships. For women, masturbation is a private affair. It’s a moment of self contemplation when we please ourselves, without having to please others first. Men on the other side often do it alone as well, (isn’t being alone the essence of masturbation?) but they don’t mind doing it on the phone.

Take the http://chickswithsass.com/cheap-phone-sex-compare website for example.  It specialized in mutual masturbation and is hugely popular with men.  Why? There is something uniquely satisfying in talking about fantasies with strangers, particularly when the talk becomes … sexual … which in turns encourages … masturbation.

As a woman who answers the phones for http://chickswithsass.com/two-phone-sex-numbers I can tell you that the thought of hearing men surrendering themselves completely to the sound of my voice is something hugely erotic.

Women are like that though.  They love to please, it is the nature of who we are as moms, wives, girlfriends… To nurture, cajole and please others is a feature of our selves, and that includes sexually pleasing our partners.

When it comes to sex, women often times are quite content… not to come… so long as their male partners do…

Luckily, the world we live in is changing all that, and more and more women are demanding to receive in return what they so gladly give to others.

None more so than the chicks with sass…